gab blogs: You are not your mistake; They are what you did, Not who you are. Have pride in how far you have come. Have faith in how far you can go.You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve you love and affection. When you start seeing your worth, you'll find it harder to stay around people who don't. It is so important to take time for your self and find clarity. The most important relationship is the one you have with your self. I had to grow to love my body. I did not have a good self image at first. Finally at occurred to me. I'm either going to love me or hate me. And i chose to love my self. Then everything kind of sprung from there. Things that i thought weren't attractive became handsome. Confidence make you handsome.